Anonymous asked: What do you say to people who say one thing and then do another? For instance if they act like someone is very important to them but then they keep them out of the loop with how they're really feel or what their doing? Is it because they're ashamed of their 'friend'? Or does it go deeper than that?
I personally would opt to say it’s not as clear cut as they’re just not telling you. People can keep quiet about things for a number of reasons. They may be ashamed of their actions or may have just happened to do something differently. Ideally I’d say it’s best seen on a case by case basis. As in, there could be different reasons for each situation.
If you’re finding this is hurting you or causing you emotional pain, i’d simply ask them what’s going on. Why won’t they talk to you. From there, the choice is yours as to what you do. If you feel
You can’t trust that person, maybe it’s time to sink or swim? Stick by them or figure you deserve better than to be lied too.
